For any of you planning an outdoor Ceremony or Reception (or photographs outdoors), here's my humble advice...

Three stories come to mind.

1. The first is from a Bride a few years back who, at her last meeting with me (to finalize all the details), was clearly in a frenzied state. I didn't want to get too personal, but I had to ask her what was wrong. She replied that she couldn't sleep because all she thinks about is what will happen if it rains at her outdoor Ceremony ? I asked if that was the biggest worry she had - she said yes. We talked some more and we both agreed that she shouldn't work herself into a panic over things she can't control.

Her wedding day was cloudy during the Ceremony, poured rain during the inside courtyard cocktail hour, then the most beautiful sunshine came out for gorgeous outdoor photos. (FYI - she had an army of umbrellas at the ready, just in case).

2. The picture above shows a wedding that was 11th hour stress for the Groom. The Bride made is perfectly clear that the Groom had final say on the Ceremony in or out if it rained....he decided last minute to have the Ceremony outside. The Bride was thankful since she really wanted to be married outside. The night before, they suspected rain for the wedding Ceremony, so they did a phone chain to get the word out and ask all the guests to bring umbrellas - it worked well.

3. The last scenario involved an outdoor beach Ceremony. I asked the Bride if she had a plan "B", in case it rained. Her reply was simple and very poignant - "no, I don't have a plan B, and I really couldn't care if it rains....I love him so much I'll marry him anywhere, any weather !"

Whatever your take on it, if it rains then either have an alternate space indoors, or umbrellas or a great (I don't care) attitude.